Parents Corner

Special Olympics athlete Chloe and her mom Susanne

Her cleats were untied, but she was appropriately dressed in shorts and a T-shirt, holding her dark   green Mansfield jacket. She had a ball by her feet and had marked her initials on the cap of her water bottle. She said, “We can go now.” She had watched her sister get ready many times before so she knew exactly what it took for an athlete to be prepared for a practice. She was finally moving from the sidelines onto the playing fields. It was her turn and she was ready.

Special Olympics of Massachusetts (SOMA) has come to Mansfield creating playing opportunities for many local children with special needs, many of whom have patiently waited for their turns on the fields and courts. Heather Gage, the mother of two young boys with autism, began the quest for a SOMA team in Mansfield last spring. SOMA provides year-round sports training and athletic competition to people with intellectual disabilities. “I was worried about how my boys would do in regular sports. I had heard that Special Olympics was a great way for children with special needs to play sports with peers and feel successful,” Gage said.

Heather was guided in this large undertaking by Meg Benevides, the Associate South Section Director of SOMA. They began working with Pat Cosgrove, Director of Mansfield Special Education. They held meetings to get a feel for what families with children with special needs were hoping their children could participate in. There was a general feeling of curiosity and hope among parents, but no one really knew if it would work. We knew our children had the desire to play sports, but we didn’t know if they could actually go out onto a field and be able to play by the rules.  But as often happens in the world of those with special needs, our children surprised us by doing exactly what they were asked to. They played ball.

Two seasons have already passed and approximately fifty athletes have participated in both the Fall and Winter sports seasons at State Games. Last fall they gathered at Plymouth Street fields to begin learning the game of soccer. Darlene Menz stepped forward to act as the head coach. A middle school nurse and avid soccer player herself, Darlene had previously coached children with special needs. A group of young volunteers agreed to serve as peer role models by playing along side the athletes. SOMA calls them Unified Partners. They help the children with special needs to follow the rules of the game and demonstrate how to move the ball offensively and defensively. Practices resulted in great progress and in October, Mansfield Special Olympics sent four teams to the qualifying games in North Attleboro, where they played, for the first time, competitive soccer, against other local teams. There were cheers, and even tears of happiness, as goals were scored and our athletes prepared to play in the Special Olympics MA State Fall Tournament.

On a picture perfect November day in Byfield, MA, hundreds of Special Olympics athletes from over 110 teams, along with their Unified partners, coaches and families gathered to use their soccer skills and compete for medals or ribbons in this state-wide, season ending tournament. The opening ceremony of the Games always includes the reciting of the Special Olympics Athlete’s Oath: "Let me win. But if I cannot win, let me be brave in the attempt." They are perfect lines for a group of athletes whose main goal is to try to play the game. Mansfield’s own Emily Joyce represented all athletes by reciting it in front of everyone. Our teams played wonderfully and brought home silver and gold. Winning feels good, but in the end, the Special Olympics athletes already felt great, just by being able to play  sports together in front of many cheering spectators, the way their brothers and sisters do.

In December, many of these same athletes began basketball practices. Ed Doherty, a longtime Mansfield Youth Basketball coach, volunteered to act as the head coach. He brought with him the members of the girls’ eighth grade Metro-west basketball team to serve as Unified Partners. Mike McGuire and Sandy Skinner, both experienced basketball coaches, also volunteered to help. Forty-two children with intellectual disabilities from Mansfield, Norton, Foxboro, Plainville and Norfolk between the ages of 6 to 16 showed up to take a shot at playing basketball. Practices took place at the Mass Premier Courts and Mansfield Sports Complex facilities, both facilities donating the court space. The children were divided by age and abilities and they began playing basketball. Shooting techniques, offensive and defensive strategies were demonstrated and learned. In February, in the gym at Stonehill College, the Mansfield Jr. Hornets and Sr. Hornets showed that they could hold their own on the courts as they prepared for SOMA’s State Winter Games. 

          In February, despite blizzard-like conditions, the teams traveled to Worcester for the Winter Games. It didn’t matter to anyone if a player traveled or double-dribbled and athletes from opposing teams allowed one another to move under the basket to set-up for a shot. Parents cheered for every basket made regardless of which team scored. All in all, it was a day of great fun. As they walked out of the gym, tired, but happy, the Special Olympics athletes proudly wore their ribbons and medals home. Many excitedly recounted the great plays of the day, embellishing a bit at times, just like they had so often heard their brothers and sisters do.

          The experiences these athletes have had are joyful, remarkable, well deserved and worthy of repeating at future SOMA events. Some children are already learning the fundamentals of track with head coach Kim Piro and volleyball with Qualters Middle School teacher Heidi Egan. Please consider helping our organization in any of the following ways: 1.) volunteer for us as a coach or Unified Partner, 2.) contribute to our fundraisers or 3.) cheer our athletes on at one of their Olympic Games. Mansfield Special Olympics is grateful for any form of support you can give. Checks are payable to Mansfield Special Olympics and should be mailed to Special Olympics Massachusetts, 66 Main Street, Taunton, MA 02780. Our local email is: HeatherAndTheBoys @ Verizon.net. The SOMA office email is: megan.benevides@specialolymicsma.org. The local SOMA website is: www.specialolympicsma.org/south.

 

Written By: Susanne Tallarida, proud mother of a 15 year old tomboy with Down Syndrome, who is psyched to represent Mansfield at SOMA events.